sandhillsis on April 8th, 2010

Ben and I are celebrating our 15 year anniversary today. Kind of. In reality? I need to finish planting our garden, put clean clothes away and whoop a clean on this dirty farm house. After school the kids will have homework and maybe ball practice. Ben has to work late, then has a bluegrass gig. Our plans for [...]

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sandhillsis on February 11th, 2010

You never hear that, do you? That’s one cocktail, nobody wants. But if you are married and taking in air, it’s a drink you’ll get to taste at some point. No worries though, Mate! All you need is one book. Love and Respect.   It is the relationship book to end all relationship books. It [...]

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sandhillsis on August 14th, 2009

I just got back from sitting with my Mom in the hospital while she got her last hip replaced just in time for retirement. Surgical waiting rooms can be funny places. I couldn’t help but think about all the years she invested in us kids, something none of us could ever pay back. At best, just pass [...]

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sandhillsis on February 4th, 2009

This is my clothes line, or why we bought our house. My therapy couch. My best friend. My boys jungle gym when I’m not looking. It’s green. It’s zen. I love it! This is one of the places I go to purge and rebuild. This is where I go to find me. I must go there often, [...]

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